Editing How to write a hosting request (section)

== Are you for real? ==

* '''Make sure you have a complete and detailed profile.''' Upload more than one picture of yourself - possibly doing fun activities that you enjoy, or places you've already visited. Describe yourself in details, not generalities. This takes some time, but it is worthwhile, especially for those who have few (or no) references. 
* Write about what you want to do in the place you are wanting to visit.
* Don't make any demands, but don't be obsequious or give fake compliments either. You will get the most from a visit by adapting to and experiencing what's different about the place. Share what you can and accept what is offered.
* Some networks have specific features that allow member [[verification]] that you might want to consider. 
** The [[:cs:verification.html|verification]] on Couchsurfing is a bit tricky as it merely means that someone's credit card was used and that there's an address where someone was able to receive a postcard. Being a level 3 fully verified member might help increase your chance of the host accepting you, but it might also decrease your chances with other hosts who are sceptical of the verification process.
** A better attempt is the member based [https://www.bewelcome.org/wiki/verification verification at BeWelcome], which is only done in person. Members can verify each other's ID cards or passports.